Whether it's your marriage, your thoughts, your habits, your relationships, or your sense of direction, you already know when something in life isn't the way it should be. STS coaching helps you face what's really happening, understand what's driving it, and take real biblical steps toward change.
11,555+ coaching appointments. 22+ coaches. One methodology.
The gap between who you are and who God made you to be isn't always dramatic. Most of the time it's quiet, persistent, and just out of reach.
"We're fine. We just feel like we're going through the motions."
Distance that grew slowly. Now it feels like the default.
"I'm productive. But there's nothing life-giving about it."
The labor of your hands should mean something.
"I want deeper connection. I keep having the same conversations."
The depth you want keeps slipping through how you communicate.
"I said I'd stop doing that. And then I did it again."
The pattern runs no matter how many times you decide.
"I know who God made me to be. I can't figure out how to get there."
The gap isn't closing on its own.
"I know what Scripture says. I still can't stop spiraling."
Knowing isn't the same as walking in it.
Your coach is not here to nod, affirm, and send you away with more things to reflect on. They're here to help you tell the truth, see clearly, and learn how to move differently. The goal isn't endless processing. The goal is real change — walked out in your actual life.
"I've told this story a hundred times. But my coach asked a question nobody had ever asked. I heard myself say something I'd never said out loud before."
"I'd framed it as a communication problem for years. My coach helped me see it was a belief I'd been carrying since childhood. That changed everything."
"We practiced the same response four times. I felt ridiculous. The fifth time the situation was real — and I actually did it differently."
"Six months later I was in the exact situation I used to dread. And I wasn't the same person who used to dread it. I knew what to do. And I did it."
Every coaching relationship is tailored to where you actually are — not a generic program.
Not finished. Not perfect. Real people who've done the same work they're asking you to do — trained in the same methodology, and still living it themselves.
Some people come here frustrated — tired of the gap between who they are and who they want to be. Others come here in real pain — in the middle of something hard, desperate for help that actually moves them forward.
Both belong here. What this requires isn't a certain emotional state. It's a willingness to be honest, be coached, and do the work.
I'd read every book. Went through counseling twice. Nothing changed until someone named the actual belief underneath why I kept shutting down. My wife said she finally felt like she had her husband back.
I knew what I was supposed to be doing with my life. I had no idea what was stopping me. My coach asked one question in the second session that I'm still working through six months later. In a good way.
I came in thinking I just needed accountability. I left understanding why accountability had never worked before. That difference changed everything — at work, at home, in how I show up.
"Be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the will of God — what is good and acceptable and perfect."
Romans 12:2No. This is discipleship coaching. It is not a clinical service, and it does not diagnose or treat clinical conditions. Coaching is active and forward-moving — helping you see what's driving your struggle and learn new ways to respond. If clinical care is what you actually need, we'll tell you honestly and help point you toward the right resource.
Most clients begin to see meaningful movement within 6 to 10 sessions. The four stages take time, especially the Refine stage, which requires repetition for new habits to stick. Some people work with a coach for a defined season; others return when a new challenge surfaces.
Yes. All Share the Struggle coaches operate under strict confidentiality standards. What you share in coaching stays in coaching, with the same standard legally required disclosures that apply in situations involving imminent danger.
If you already know something needs to change, that's usually enough to start. You don't need to have every word for it yet. You don't need to wait until things get worse. If you're ready to face what's really happening and stop living around it, coaching may be the right next step.
Yes. Several coaches on the team work with married couples, not just individuals. When you reach out, you can indicate that you're looking for couples coaching and be connected with coaches who specialize in that work.
Individual coaching packages are built around monthly minutes used in 25- or 50-minute sessions. Current rates: 100 minutes per month for $197, or 200 minutes per month for $349. Couples coaching is $250 and $475 respectively. Group coaching is $24 per session, billed weekly.
Pick the coach who fits where you are. The first conversation is the hardest part — and the most important one.